This all started with something I said at work today I shouldn’t have. We were talking about a woman who has been to the office many times and her behavior when she has come in. She has some serious rage issues and many other things. As someone who has a mental illness it was insensitive for me to say she needs to be on meds. I stand by my statement because this woman does need to seek professional help. I do not have an MD, PHD, or any fancy letters behind my name to back up my statement. But I have been reading psychology books since I was 11. The behavior she has exhibited shows there is something wrong with her. I really hope she gets some help.
My statement was uncalled for, but that is not the point of this blog. What I want to write about is the statement my coworker made in response to mine. She said. ‘People shouldn’t take medication it just makes them worse.’ I reminded myself I was at work and kept my mouth shut. If I had not been at work this is what I would have said.
‘A person who does not have a mental illness should not make a statement about if taking medications help or makes the problem worse. I from personal experience know that these medications work. I’m sure a person with schizophrenia who no longer hears voices in their head telling them to kill their parents would agree with me. You can’t make that judgement with out having that experience. Would you tell a person with cancer not to take medication. My friend has a heart condition and if she doesn’t take her medication it will kill her. I fully support anyone who treats their illness the way they want, but I don’t believe you should tell others how to treat theirs. Let’s agree to disagree.’
She is from Vietnam and that is part of her culture. I understand that, but that is one big thing I take issue with. Especially since it is something she has said to me before when I have taken something for my migraine. I have chronic migraines that get very bad. If I don’t take something I will have to have someone come and pick me up and take me home. I respect that she doesn’t take medication. She had a bad cold once I said if you are that miserable you should take some cold medication or go home. She told me how she feels about medication and I said okay. People should be able to treat their illness in the way they feel is best with out judgement. Not with drugs and alcohol of course. I don’t even say anything about treating certain illnesses legally with pot. That is up to that individual person.
The point of my rant is that it upsets me when people say that people with illnesses mainly with mental illness should not be treated with medication. I definitely don’t agree that it doesn’t work. I am living proof that it does. Medication is not for everyone one, but don’t spout your opinions as fact. There are times that medications made someones condition worse, but only because they weren’t the right ones. Find the right one and it works great. I do believe we are an over medicated nation. I have very strong opinions on ADHD diagnoses and the over prescribing of those medications. Unless asked I keep them to myself.
It is okay to have opinions, but don’t tell me something you don’t know anything about doesn’t work. I can give you testimonials of a lot of people it does work for.